Let me talk to my guys for a second…  Guys, if a young lady called you to come over in the wee hours (let’s say after 10PM), what would you assume she wants.  To the typical male brain, a lady wanting to see you at that time of night is opening herself up to one thing.

Here’s why:

1. What else can we do at that time of night?
2. I’m about to move to my bedroom and bed if I’m not there already.  You must plan to accompany me.
3. You know there’s only one reason I’m staying up when I have to get up in the morning.

Ladies, your turn…  Why would you visit a man at that time of night?  What are you expecting of him at that time of night.  Snuggles, hugs, QT?

So let’s lay it all on the line.  What are we expecting from lay night visitors?

Today’s topic was sparked by an interesting conversation at a bar that came up a couple of weeks ago.  A gentlemen pawned the question to the women at the bar, “Does a sex with a man with money make the sex better?”  Odd question enough that sparked quite the comments.  However, the general consensus seemed to think that you should only have sex with people on your financial level.

Quite the eyebrow raiser to me.  I wondered if I even missed something during my bathroom break.  But I thought it about it for the reminder of night…  Should we really stick to sex with people in our tax bracket.  A sexual downgrade to a lower tax bracket could definitely get you in a world of trouble, or could get you in a world of fun.  But you be the judge.

Marriages come, marriages go.  Sometimes the go doesn’t move as quickly as the marriage came.  For many, they like to move on with their social/dating life prior to finalizing the divorce.  Some have no intent to seek divorce at all.  Single people encounter these persons daily.

Some people would choose to not deal with a legally married but separated person.  Some would deal with them anyway.  There’s a lot to be said about a married person that embraces the single life before divorce.  There’s maybe a little bit more to be said for the person with the separated individual.  But I won’t say it…but you can…

This goes out to the guys, the ladies with guys, and even the guys with guys.  Male libido is such a sensitive thing.  Some guys have it, some don’t.  Some have more than others, some wish they had less.  Even in a guy’s down periods, he can resort to several male enhancement or sex drive pills to get him back to where he needs to be.  But for some, a little porn does the trick – or does it…

I recently had a conversation with a female friend who said her man frequently watched porn.  Without her around, with her around, it didn’t matter.  And when it came time for their action, he just didn’t seem to get with it.  She blamed it all on the porn.  She said it was like he was cheating with it (I had to laugh here).

So I know many of you have dabbled in the porn arena before.  So your opinion is probably the best answer on the subject.

They are as follows.

1. The people there probably don’t want you.
2. Their governments don’t want you.
3. Other countries treat illegal immigrants worse than America.
4. What you hate about America, you find everywhere.
5. Adapting will be harder than you can imagine.
6. You will likely just hang out with other Americans the whole time

This didn’t impact my decision to move, but it was an entertaining read.  The article is meant as a satire piece but there is a tinge of truth to it.  Knowing what you know from that article (and your own experience) would you ever seriously consider moving abroad?

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Everybody has different goals for life.  Some people want to be rich beyond their wildest dreams.  Some people want to live a stress free life.  Some people want to solve world hunger.  Everybody ticks based on different things.

A good fulfilled life is bound to have 1 or more of the following elements:

• Goals
• Strong Health
• Great Friends/Community
• Ways to Handle Stress
• Money

In your opinion which element (s) are necessary to live a fulfilling existence?

There was once a time when social media was a neat little corner of the internet.  Back then things were in a golden age of sorts.  You could say and do what you wanted with little consequence.  As things got bigger that changed.  Sites started instituting terms of agreement/service to make sure that users had the best experience.  More money started changing hands.  Social media turned into big business.

THEN.  The dark side of society reared its ugly head.  People started (GASP) lying on the internet about who they are.  Lying on the internet isn’t really that big a deal until someone starts being a big asshole.  In the last few years that has been the trend. CNET recently ran a story about making lying on the web about who you are a crime.  They site a pretty compelling argument for doing so.  Apparently a woman named Lori Drew created a fake MySpace account and harrassed a 13 year old girl so much that she committed suicide.  Her conviction was thrown out but the Department of Justice is pressing to make this type of activity illegal.

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Sex is one of those things that everybody learns about in a different way.  Some parents flat out avoid the discussion.  Some parents tip toe into the discussion.  Some parents give way to much graphical information (mine did).

From what I’ve seen people whose parents really explain sex (and its outcomes) to them tend to be better adjusted.  People whose parents don’t explain it tend to swing from the pole.  I’m sure nobody here wants to see their beloved son or daughter sliding down a pole in their local happy gallery anytime soon.

That begs the following question.

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