Let me talk to my guys for a second…  Guys, if a young lady called you to come over in the wee hours (let’s say after 10PM), what would you assume she wants.  To the typical male brain, a lady wanting to see you at that time of night is opening herself up to one thing.

Here’s why:

1. What else can we do at that time of night?
2. I’m about to move to my bedroom and bed if I’m not there already.  You must plan to accompany me.
3. You know there’s only one reason I’m staying up when I have to get up in the morning.

Ladies, your turn…  Why would you visit a man at that time of night?  What are you expecting of him at that time of night.  Snuggles, hugs, QT?

So let’s lay it all on the line.  What are we expecting from lay night visitors?

Today’s topic was sparked by an interesting conversation at a bar that came up a couple of weeks ago.  A gentlemen pawned the question to the women at the bar, “Does a sex with a man with money make the sex better?”  Odd question enough that sparked quite the comments.  However, the general consensus seemed to think that you should only have sex with people on your financial level.

Quite the eyebrow raiser to me.  I wondered if I even missed something during my bathroom break.  But I thought it about it for the reminder of night…  Should we really stick to sex with people in our tax bracket.  A sexual downgrade to a lower tax bracket could definitely get you in a world of trouble, or could get you in a world of fun.  But you be the judge.

Marriages come, marriages go.  Sometimes the go doesn’t move as quickly as the marriage came.  For many, they like to move on with their social/dating life prior to finalizing the divorce.  Some have no intent to seek divorce at all.  Single people encounter these persons daily.

Some people would choose to not deal with a legally married but separated person.  Some would deal with them anyway.  There’s a lot to be said about a married person that embraces the single life before divorce.  There’s maybe a little bit more to be said for the person with the separated individual.  But I won’t say it…but you can…

This goes out to the guys, the ladies with guys, and even the guys with guys.  Male libido is such a sensitive thing.  Some guys have it, some don’t.  Some have more than others, some wish they had less.  Even in a guy’s down periods, he can resort to several male enhancement or sex drive pills to get him back to where he needs to be.  But for some, a little porn does the trick – or does it…

I recently had a conversation with a female friend who said her man frequently watched porn.  Without her around, with her around, it didn’t matter.  And when it came time for their action, he just didn’t seem to get with it.  She blamed it all on the porn.  She said it was like he was cheating with it (I had to laugh here).

So I know many of you have dabbled in the porn arena before.  So your opinion is probably the best answer on the subject.

Sex is one of those things that everybody learns about in a different way.  Some parents flat out avoid the discussion.  Some parents tip toe into the discussion.  Some parents give way to much graphical information (mine did).

From what I’ve seen people whose parents really explain sex (and its outcomes) to them tend to be better adjusted.  People whose parents don’t explain it tend to swing from the pole.  I’m sure nobody here wants to see their beloved son or daughter sliding down a pole in their local happy gallery anytime soon.

That begs the following question.

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If you and your significant other have sex in the same position all the time and stick to it, then you are one of the very few, very very few.  Changing positions normally gives the man or woman that bit of sensation or last minute arousement to get the job done.

Most seem to have their favorite position, or grand finale (as I’ve heard it called before), but regardless – it gets the problem solved.  But how often do you change positions.  Does it work best as a one for you, one for me kinda thing, or is it a continuous rotation and flipping into the wee hours of the night.

Ok, now it’s your turn…

Relationships like anything else gets old.  Men age, Women age, relationships age, and so does the sex life.  The routine of you lie here, I’ll lie here, you lie there, I’ll lie there, rollover, move your leg, get up you’re heavy, all wears on people.  But what can you do.

Some common suggestions are:

• Communication.  More daily conversation leads to more sex and better sex.
• Sharing sexual desires.
• Discuss expectations from love making.
• As life gets busy, plan for sex at certain times.  Looking forward to sex is better than Christmas morning.
• Set the mood in advance.  If you want night sex, start foreplay that morning.
• Hold hands more.
• Schedule date nights.

And of course if none of that works, you can always take the more erotic approach.  But no need to listen to the online self-proclaimed gurus.  How do you light the dimming fire…

For those of you who don’t know what a condom is:

a sheath commonly of rubber worn over the penis (as to prevent conception or venereal infection during coitus)

Quite simply put, it is the device that is designed to protect against pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.  With most products, there are several to choose from.  A quick google search of brands will yield 20+ brands.  But which is best.  Aside from each brand performing the basic function of protection, what do so many brands do.  What causes the price variation in them all?

Trojan proudly boasts of having ~70% of the market share in the U.S.  However, that’s what Trojan had to say.  What do you have to say?

I know you love one another and having sex is a part of your “sharing” of feelings, but let’s be honest…  Sex is all about the climax.  She wants the sensual implosion and like Mt. Vesuvius, you want to blow your top.

Like most things, we have goals.  When it comes to sex, that is our goal – to climax.  Some are satisfied with just one and its off to beddy bye.  For others, they need to shoot for double digits (may the force be with their partner).  So let’s hear it – can you count your climaxes on one hand or do you need a calculator?