Today’s post is fairly simple. You have your own place.  A happy place just for you. You have a boyfriend/girlfriend/man friend/ lady friend/boy toy/booty call/mandingo warrior and they frequent your abode. Due to the frequency of their visits, discussion arise around the convenience of providing a key. And the moment of truth: to give a [...]

Everybody is looking for love.  I can honestly say that I’ve always been a very patient man in my relationships, but there are certain things that always ruffle the feathers.  I mean even as nice of a man as I am, I can’t stand for everything. Cheating….IS NOT ALLOWED! Nasty (enough said) Spending unnecessary money [...]

We all have our pet peeves.  You know – something that gets under our skin and triggers displeasure quicker than most other things.  Unfortunately, sometimes our spouses/partners/BFFs are the providers of these unfortunates. Just think back to college… Did your roommate ever eat your snacks that you bought? Maybe your roommate forgot to flush? Maybe [...]

Relationships like anything else gets old.  Men age, Women age, relationships age, and so does the sex life.  The routine of you lie here, I’ll lie here, you lie there, I’ll lie there, rollover, move your leg, get up you’re heavy, all wears on people.  But what can you do. Some common suggestions are: Communication. [...]

I know you love one another and having sex is a part of your “sharing” of feelings, but let’s be honest…  Sex is all about the climax.  She wants the sensual implosion and like Mt. Vesuvius, you want to blow your top. Like most things, we have goals.  When it comes to sex, that is [...]