You’re out on the date with that special someone.  This is the 5th date and things have been going quite well.  You’re into her.  She’s into him.

After a nice dinner and a few drinks, you both decide to head to his house and relax and catch a late night movie.  The eye gazing begins and it’s on!  Kisses from head to toe, shirt pulling, body bumping.  You gradually make your way to bedroom and onto the bed.  You(the guy) are ready and at attention (subtly speaking).  She is seemingly ready as well.

Pants and undies are released and he reaches over for the very important protection.  But she grabs you and says wait…..  And those famous words, “I don’t know if this is the right time”.  “Can we just snuggle and go to sleep?”

You have just been given a case of the blue balls.  Now what…  There’s lotion in the bathroom.  Or maybe she just likes playing games and wants you to play the aggressor and come after it.  Which one are you?

Ladies, don’t feel left out…..What should the “attentive” man do?