An old Teddy Pendergrass song starts out with “Turn off the lights, and light a candle…” Teddy P continues to wow crowds of people whenever this very line is played. Nothing much to what he’s saying, but more evident is the context of what it means. Teddy was giving all mood setters who heard his song advice on how to set the mood.
Moods can be set in several ways:
- Kissing. Good wholesome tongue action kissing. Men and women are both turned on by kissing. Whether it be the soft skin of the touching lips or the lips and wet tongue taking a journey around one’s neck, ears, chest, etc. – it works, Trust me!
- Temptation. Never fall into a stagnant sex life. The same routine of get naked, lie down, get busy can get very boring to most and drives the “sex drive” right out of your sexual relationship. Instead be somewhat of a tease, dress in a tempting manner, act as if you’re luring your partner in.
- Attire. Buy the attire you would like for your partner to wear. If you buy it, that means chances are – you like it. Your partner will more than likely enjoy it because its sexy, you bought it, and they get to model it for you.
- Atmosphere. Candles, Bubble baths, satin sheets, light music, rub on creams, ice, strawberries, chocolate, and even cool whip. All a recipe for very pleasing night.
I know you’ve become quite excited now but we need you to refocus your attention. It’s survey time, and we want to know….




This article has gotten me all hot and bothered…I’m gonna have to leave work early and “set the mood” this evening.
Fuck mood setting. When the moment is right, get to it.
I have a slide show with about 500 pictures of myself in various sexy positions. That normally gets the party poppin.
I think I just threw up in my mouth a little.
If you’re going to make a valiant effort to set the mood, might as well do it right. All the above.
Dinner and drinks launched me into my current involvement so it guess it works.