I have been bisexual since I was a young child and I enjoy sex with women a lot so my fiance let me explore with one of our mutual friends and I decided to let him join in.

Recently we’ve met a woman who is gorgeous and sweet and we are bringing her not just into our bed but into our relationship. We go out on dates and have a lot of fun as a threesome but my fiance and I also have our alone time. We all three sleep in the same bed and the only arguments we have is who gets to sleep in the middle!

However, you must be careful because althouh none of our threesomes caused trouble in our relationship, one of the girls had a hard time with it and felt jealous that we did not want to bring her into our relationship as well but she was not a good fit. You have to be considerate of other people’s feelings.

Also, be careful! Use condoms and know the person you are bringing into your bed! We are always very safe.

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I didn’t see the proof my friend, merely saw your words.

Proving your statement untrue and wrong is not passing judgement. It is simply that…proving you wrong.

The fact that you feel compelled to tell me that I am wrong because I didn’t say “think” and my statement was untrue means you are taking issue with what I said and also passing judgment. (Pot meet Kettle) I have also seen crazy Springer and Maury shows and even one or two on A&E about 3+ relationships and marriages. All because some show wanted ratings and decided to put it on TV doesn’t make it anymore justified or right.

And yes, people leading these lives do have effect on mines and yours. Like I said previously, disease spreading and broken homes lead to more kids in need of your tax dollars and more super speeder tickets so the funds can go toward HIV and STD research.

Some people also thrive on killing people, staying drugged up, selling drugs to America’s youth, and raping other’s daughters – still don’t make it right.

Yeah, some rules and guidelines seem a little far fetched, but a world without any guidelines and rules is nothing more than the Matrix and unfortunately you will never stop bullets or fly in a trench coat.

You’re being judgmental again. I never said I wanted my SO to go be a third or that I would really sign up for a threesome. Despite what you think, there are people out there whose relationships thrive on openness and a more broad experience of intimacy. Would I do it? No, but comments like yours above ostracizing and demeaning those that choose to lead a life style different from yours AND has no effect on your life are uncalled for.

Derrick: No loving, respecting couple would allow another into their relationship.

This is where I take issue. If you had said you “feel” or “think” no loving respecting couple… I would have agreed that you are entitled to believe that. Instead you made a blanket narrow minded statement that is untrue. I have seen several shows documenting the people that thrive on this lifestyle. Neither of us would thrive in such a situation, but there are people out there that do and you shouldn’t be so quick to make rash statements.

It’s frolicking minds like yours that lead to disease spreading and broken relationships and households.

If you are now, or plan to be a man in a relationship, do you want your woman playing some other couple’s 3rd. That way she can bring you all the bumps and bleeding you can handle.