Sexual relationships are strange. They start off as a blazing inferno of passion. You meet a person, sparks fly, and before long you are doing the horizontal boogie. When you start there is nothing better in the world.
Their smell fascinates you. Their body entices you. Their eyes hypnotize you. Their (insert genital name here) makes your (insert genital name here) explode.
Generally speaking that passion will fade over time. It takes creativity and determination to keep the flames alive. Many “exterior” items come to mind. You can (or at least I can) always find a use for candy, syrup, toys, ice, and fruit. That normally does the trick.
But what happens when that isn’t enough? An adventurous spouse may elect to bring another warm body into the sack. 95% of the time it is the man trying to get another woman into bed. It is slightly unconventional, but it definitely spices things up in the bed.
If you couldn’t spark the fire in your bed would you consider this route?
Come down to the comments section and drop your $.o2.
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What would you do with a million dollars?
2 Chicks at the same time.
I would truly enjoy two hotties slobbing on my knob.
As ideal as two girls sounds, I know better.
That’s a negative. No loving, respecting couple would allow another into their relationship.
Somebody has blinders on…
Not everybody is like you and the world would not be a better place if they were all like you. It’s close minded thinking like this that creates schism in our society.
I crossed my fingers that it would happen when I was single (it never did). I wouldn’t try it in my relationship.
It’s frolicking minds like yours that lead to disease spreading and broken relationships and households.
If you are now, or plan to be a man in a relationship, do you want your woman playing some other couple’s 3rd. That way she can bring you all the bumps and bleeding you can handle.
You’re being judgmental again. I never said I wanted my SO to go be a third or that I would really sign up for a threesome. Despite what you think, there are people out there whose relationships thrive on openness and a more broad experience of intimacy. Would I do it? No, but comments like yours above ostracizing and demeaning those that choose to lead a life style different from yours AND has no effect on your life are uncalled for.
This is where I take issue. If you had said you “feel” or “think” no loving respecting couple… I would have agreed that you are entitled to believe that. Instead you made a blanket narrow minded statement that is untrue. I have seen several shows documenting the people that thrive on this lifestyle. Neither of us would thrive in such a situation, but there are people out there that do and you shouldn’t be so quick to make rash statements.
The fact that you feel compelled to tell me that I am wrong because I didn’t say “think” and my statement was untrue means you are taking issue with what I said and also passing judgment. (Pot meet Kettle) I have also seen crazy Springer and Maury shows and even one or two on A&E about 3+ relationships and marriages. All because some show wanted ratings and decided to put it on TV doesn’t make it anymore justified or right.
And yes, people leading these lives do have effect on mines and yours. Like I said previously, disease spreading and broken homes lead to more kids in need of your tax dollars and more super speeder tickets so the funds can go toward HIV and STD research.
Some people also thrive on killing people, staying drugged up, selling drugs to America’s youth, and raping other’s daughters – still don’t make it right.
Yeah, some rules and guidelines seem a little far fetched, but a world without any guidelines and rules is nothing more than the Matrix and unfortunately you will never stop bullets or fly in a trench coat.
Proving your statement untrue and wrong is not passing judgement. It is simply that…proving you wrong.
Hell No! There are enough issues when there are two people involved in a relationship—why add a third person into it? Whatever you need/want to have, you need to get it from your partner, go without, or end the relationship.
I didn’t see the proof my friend, merely saw your words.
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