I remember the first time I was faced with the after sex cuddle dilemma. After a great night of incredible sex something ridiculous happened…the lady asked me to cuddle. I instinctively recoiled in confusion. The person extending their arms was covered in sweat and sex juices. Did she really expect me to cuddle?
After 30 minutes of bending, lifting, and thrusting I was done. Heat surged through my body. I was in a mood to relax. The last thing (and I do mean the last thing) I wanted to do was lay down and envelop myself in someone else’s body heat and sweat. After about 30 seconds of pouting I caved in and an unnecessary exchange of body heat and sweat ensued.
Since then, I’ve become a little less resistant to cuddling but I still don’t see the purpose. Maybe the Survey Magnet readership can help me out.
Come down to the comments section and give me your $.02.
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Yes, but it isn’t because I like it or that it makes me feel special. I just too lazy to get out of bed and run away. I turn on the TV and she lays her head on my chest and puts her arms around me. That is about as far as cuddling goes for me.
Yeah and no. Depends on the moment. Quickies aren’t designed to have cuddle periods.
I thought abstinence was best?
It is.
Can’t be cuddling after not doing it.
What about presex cuddle? I use that to get to sex sometimes. Start out slow and innocent, then BAM fingers in the pussy.
I don’t like fighting so I’m fine with letting some lady sweat permeate my skin.
This is very correct.
Where is the “sometimes” option? It’s okay sometimes and sometimes I want to go to sleep. Haven’t we been close enough during the sexual act that cuddling is not necessary?
Wow! I never expected to hear that from a woman.
Why are you shocked? It is what it is…I’m just being honest about it. As I said in Monday’s post…there is a time, place, and mood for everything…cuddling is nice and all…it’s just not always necessary.
Besides, I am an educator……I can appreciate all the sleep that I can get!
Going to sleep and staying abstinent will get you a lot of appreciated sleep
Sometimes you feel like a nut …sometimes you don’t
You are so right….and considering that I am in a long distance relationship, you can say that I practice abstinence most of the time….LOL!