My Assumptions
- People love money
- People like receiving gifts
- People have bills
My Questions
- Should an involved woman accept money from another man?
- Should you allow someone else to pay your bills?
- What are the repercussions of allowing another man to pay your bills?
- What type of men would you accept a “gift” from?
Tell us what you think…
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My parents still pay my cell phone bill. How do you think I voted? I wouldn’t be mad if they cut me off, but its all tied into a family plan and its just easier to keep it that way.
I wont pay far a girl’s bills. I’ll buy dinner and pay for dates, but I’m not paying her daily expenses. I’ll give her the boot if she ever expects me to.
I would rather not have someone pay for my bills. If they pick up a dinner out of a kind gesture, that’s fine. However, I would never expect someone to do it.
Oh, and Alex will also not pay for Homecoming dates. I guess that’s a “daily expense”.
In conjunction with this week’s earlier post, woman are INDEPENDENT, therefore they should not want someone paying their bills. If a female expects me to pay her bills, she is a burden and best left alone.
I wouldn’t pay the bills of anyone else unless I really loved them. However, I am not above financial handouts. Anybody want to help me out?
No man should pay for another (married) woman’s things, and no self respecting man would let another man who is not family pay for his own bills. With this said, if I was out of a job, and my wife also unemployed I’d let someone help me out with the promise of me paying them back.
I don’t have my pride tied up in paying bills. Anybody who wants to fork up the dough can pay.
So if me, you and your lady friend went out to eat and when the bill came out, I whipped out the black card to catch you and your lady friend’s tab, you would be ok with that?
I agree with that, if you wanna give me free money who am I to turn that down.
I sure would and hell I’ve done that to a couple before.
That actually happened to me once. At the time I didn’t like it but if you want to pay who am I to stop you.
That doesn’t make you feel like less of a man???
Nope, stick and balls still intact.
Also, paying for dinner doesn’t make me a man or you for that matter.
True. In the physical sense it doesn’t make you “less” of a man. But in a relationship, it is not all the physical attributes that make you the man.
If my wife/gf/SO thinks I am less manly because another man picked up the tab, she needs to get her head checked or pick it up herself.
Being a man is not about how macho you can be or showing how deep your pockets are.
If you don’t pick up the tab, and we exclude the physical attributes, what else do you do….change the oil?
Saving money would make me feel like less of a man?
I don’t know. Does it? Since you’re in on it, what aside from your physical attributes makes you the man? Does driving the car make you the man, how about taking the trash out? Maybe you kill the roaches….
Usually when a man, outside of family, offers to pay a bill for a woman, he wants something in return …usually of the sexual nature. Very rarely will you find one who doesn’t. Nothing in life is free.
Now, have I had a “sugar daddy” before??? Well …
Being a man is nothing physical, didn’t pops teach you anything?
so is it everything but physical….(if so, paying for you and your lady friend would make you more manly)
Derrick all you do is walk around in circles, please do a little more than ask questions.
Being a man is not paying for dinner or changing my own oil. Being a man is about taking care of business by whatever means necessary. If this means providing meals (even meals paid by a another man), taking care of kids or general responsibilities. Being a man is not being macho but more so about knowing when to do and when not to do.