All Most people seek want a mate that can spin their heads around, send them into loveland, and set their emotions on a high that cannot be compared to anything else on earth. But, that is not always the case.
I’m sure you’ve experienced that one who:
- wasn’t endowed enough
- just didn’t know what to do with it
- wouldn’t move if the room was on fire
- laid on her back like a stiff board
So what do you do with this “in-need-of-training” spouse. You love them, right? So kicking them to the curb merely because of a little bed deficiency is out of the question, isn’t it?
Should you work with them? After all, this person is nice and they think the world of you.
What do you think?
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Plenty of fish in the sea… This is one reason I am single (though that may change shortly) and tend to sleep around. I meet someone we hang out and enjoy each others company then we go to bed and something just isn’t there. I don’t sleep with virgins and I do discuss the number of partners with the other person, so I am sure it isn’t a lack of experience on their part. If they haven’t figured it out by now and we don’t sync, I am not wasting my time.
I’ve dealt with a sub-par companion before. After one or two coaching sessions things are normally the way I like them. It’s pretty hard to be horrible at sex.
Abstinence is best.
@Derrick:
*cough* Why don’t you practice Abstinence then? *cough*
The reason of thinking that someone is bad in bed is based off of your “experiences” with several other people. When you lost your virginity, you never thought “Oh, he or she is bad”. It was an experience, and you liked it. Over time, you experienced this person and that person, each leaving a lasting impression. Thus leading to traits that you like and want from just one person. But that isn’t always the case. Maybe you can work with them, but it may never be just like the girl you had your first year of college, or the guy you met at the club.
@Marcus:
I do. (you want some hand sanitizer for that cough)
I like to think of them as roller coasters, some rides are just better than others. You have the mind-blowing Deja Vu experiences and then you have the tea cups. I believe to the most point that you can’t teach a old dog new tricks but they may be able to modify a few moves. You won’t create a new roller coaster but more so I new variation or “drop”.
@Emcee:
Like riding the scream machine backwards at Six Flags!!!111one
@BigAl:
Exactly. Same ride, new variation.
Again…this is one of those situations where communication is key. People are different and they perform differently. What was good for your ex may not be good for your next. It’s a matter of finding that groove and knowing your partner’s likes and dislikes….this is another reason why intercourse should not be rushed into.
I hate to do it, but I agree with the Derrick dude again. Abstinence is best. It is not until you marry the one that God has ordained for you, that you will get to experience the mind blowing intimacy that you wouldn’t have complaints with.
@Derrick:
Lying on the internet is still lying. I’m happy that survey magnet attracts a slew of wholesome virgins who don’t have sex.
LOL @ BigAl deserving the young ladies with the swiftness.
@Marcus:
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I agree with Latoya …communication is key. Closed mouths don’t get fed. It’s a couple’s responsibility to each other and themselves to express to one another what they like and don’t like. That could cut down on infidelity in some cases and bring more excitement into the bedroom.
Abstinence is best.
Marcus maybe you have had great experiences coaching folks, but women dont have an ego as big as that of a man. In some cases, of course I am not issuing blanket statements here.
Maybe I should be a little more patient. Cuz if the d is whack, I aint coming back!
@Javonne:
So are you saying you bounce around looking for the guy who makes it happen? What about his heart, his mind, his head?
@Javonne:
LOL
Bad sex is tough to deal with because it’s hard to kick a girl out the house.