
Aw……Yes. You have been with that special someone for quite some time now. Both of you know that the other loves you deeply (or close enough). You’ve experienced that rubber pleasure, you know, where the condom is the only thing between you and the “Best Feeling in the World” (I wouldn’t know).
When do you do put it all on the line and experience ALL of your partner?



yeah….about that… I prefer the lemon test. Squirt some lemon juice down there and if she doesn’t scream, you’re good to go!
Never tried that test BigAl, but I will check it out.
I mean if you are going to eventually get to unprotected, you might as well get to it from the start. Any repercussions of not being protected are the same at 1 day as they are in 3 years.
@BigAl:
LOL…WOW. You never cease to amaze me. Please explain that lemon test.
@Unprotected:
Nothing could be farther from the truth. There are over 1,000 days between day 1 and 3 years. A lot of fleas and disease can be passed in 3 years.
@Marcus
Go cut your finger and squirt it with lemon juice. Tell me how you feel. Any open sore will cause discomfort with the addition of lemon juice.
@bigal:
I see. Who did you learn that one from?
P.S. When you reply to my comment click the arrow right below my name. That will throw a link in your reply to my comment.
I picked it up as a joke years ago. Lol. Do not try it. You will be slapped! Arrow doesn’t seem to be clickable on my BB.
Does no one care about their own body and temple. Do you really want to take that chance of all the stuff that comes along with no protection.
@Derrick:
Apparently the body is more of a temporary holding cell than an actual temple.
@Marcus:
I see said the blind man.
I think even after you are married you should still use protection because the bedroom is not sacred anymore. Everyone shares now a days. It’s just not safe to go unprotected no matter how many years you’ve known or been with a person. I’m just saying.
Going unprotected is a matter of personal preference, but naturally not all see it that way. Being safe and being protected is key and it’s an individual’s own right and responsibility. Depending on their partner to be safe for the both of you, no matter how long you’ve known each other, is not always a good judgment call to make.
@Kandi:
So is it ok for one person to want protection and the other to oppose since it’s just personal preference….
@Kandi:
Put the lime in the coconut and mix it all up!
@ Derrick:
not at all. If it were me I would insist upon using protection- regardless of what my partner is saying, if he doesn’t want to strap up…I’m not getting on. Every individual is responsible for the choice he/she makes regarding their body…
@Kandi:
So you would decline a man at the hot and heavy moment when you are ready for him and he is ready for you?
@Derrick: Yes …I would. Have I always made that call? No. Wisdom has taught me better. Protection is always required. No exceptions
This is a touchy topic and I am just going to say that it takes a lot of communication before deciding to take this step. There is a lot of risk involved with choosing not to use protection and you have to be mindful of all of those risks.
@Latoya:
A lot of communication or a lot of paperwork from test? Talking doesn’t doesn’t make it anymore safe. Being mindful doesn’t protect you.
@Derrick: Communicating the results of the test!