You were invited to a nice social event by your old buddy from college. It’s a nice venue, good people, great food, and good spirited conversation. Conversations rambled on about the old college days, Spring Break trips, and how your school almost beat their rivals during your senior year.
Your friend introduces you to his wife and they appear to be a very happy couple. They are very affectionate, and your buddy has been smooching her all night, giving way to the after party extravaganza that is bound to ignite as soon as they step through their door at home.
You take a break from the antics and decide to have another drink. Your buddy’s girlfriend follows you into the kitchen and makes a joke, “If you were at the wedding, I could have called it off”. This catches you off guard, but you smirk it off and continue pouring your drink.
You attempt to leave the kitchen, but she says something is in her eye and she needs you to look at it for her. Just as you begin to look, she grips you by the neck and plants a kiss right on your lips. WOW!!!
Your mind is racing! You don’t know what to think. Should you tell your buddy or accept this advance?
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“Don’t do it if you don’t want it told.”
Seeing as this has happened to me (I had the GF wasn’t a wife) and being a heavy drinker too, I know alcohol brings out the worst sort of truth in all, but if something does go down I don’t want it kept from me while everybody else knows. And everybody else will know, news gets around.
I am a beacon of light for all that is right and true in the world. Therefore I wouldn’t accept and I would snitch.
The best kept secrets are the ones left untold.
The person who clicked Yes/Yes is a foul son of a gun.
There are two “Yes/Yes” options. Can’t trust anybody!!
@Derrick: I agree if you don’t want it told don’t do it. It’s just wrong because what you don’t know do eventually hurt you. I should know.
I wouldn’t accept the advance, but who is to say that the friend would believe you? Friends will turn on you when it comes to their mates….we don’t want to believe anything negative about our mates…and will make the situation out to be your fault. I would just keep quiet about it and stay away from the friend’s mate.
@Latoya:
As unorthodox as this situation is… This situation is likely to arise again. This was not a stranger and you met in a friend-of-a-friend environment, which means the likelihood of you seeing these people again is almost guaranteed. So would you really play keep quiet knowing you could see this person next week or next month?
@Derrick: I’m looking at this from a female point of view and from people that I know who have been in these situations. I have known females that have turned on their “bestest” of friends about their man…all because they don’t want to hear what you have to say about him….”Oh, you are just jealous….maybe you want my man”. Maybe if the action is not reciprocated, the cheating partner will leave you alone, and maybe not. There is a lot of risk involved here and it just depends on how you think your friend will react. For most, the honest friend ends up with the hurt feelings until the faithful spouse gets cheated on by the cheating spouse.