Should I have premarital sex? That’s a common question for millions of teens and loving couples. You love her, she loves you, he adores you, he would give you the world. So what’s the hold up? All your friends are doing it. There is so much pleasure to be had.
Wait — What about your morals? What about pregnancy? What about diseases? Do the Pros outweigh the Cons?
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The fire in my loins won’t allow me to wait!
If she loves me, she’ll wait.
What if she doesn’t love you? Is your willpower strong enough to keep your sacred chastity or will you fold like a wet paper bag?
Sex is better designed for marriage. Premarital sex doesn’t always prove to be beneficial for all parties involved. The majority of the male population would prefer sex before marriage …just to test drive the car before leaving the lot. The majority of the female population would prefer to get married before having sex. Let’s face it: women are more loyal than men. But as everything else it just depends on the person and their preference.
Why am I with her if she doesn’t love me?
Kandi – that was pretty good until the “…women are more loyal than men…” bit. All, most, of my friends are loyal guys. However, I do know a few that need to be reminded to turn it off.
Kandi – I’m not sure what women you know, but the women that I know also want to test drive the car before they sign off. Women have just as much fun in sex as men. If women were more loyal and trustworthy than men then we wouldn’t have so many catty women who can’t remain friends.
Derrick – I’ve wanted to ask you why you were with her if she doesn’t love you many times…I’ve learned to play nice and be quiet.
Thanks Derrick – however, let’s be honest here; USUALLY in a relationship, the woman is more loyal to the man than he to her. Not saying he’s not loyal period or that you don’t have those few women who have slipped through the cracks, but isn’t that something men “review” in a relationship – how loyal his mate is/can be? What man doesn’t want a woman who doesn’t support him or has his back? And why are you with her knowing she doesn’t love you?
Marcus – you are absolutely correct: there are a LOT of women who enjoy sex just as much as men …usually they get emotionally attached and can’t handle the consequences behind their decision to “be like a man”; usually the ones who prefer to test drive the car before signing off are usually the ones who are left on the lot themselves. There’s more to a relationship – a good relationship – than sex and any good woman knows that. When marriage is on the table, I’m sure you would prefer someone who can give you more than just sex, right? I stand firm on my belief that women CAN be more trustworthy than men – again depending on the individual. But I do know some men who can be more trustworthy than women as well ….it’s a two way street. So, you got me there.
For both gentlemen – in all fairness, you have to consider the type of woman you’re dealing with and what her ultimate goal is. If she only wants you for the night, of course premarital sex is not a problem b/c it’s only sex – two bodies pounding until a pleasurable climax is reached. But if she wants you for a lifetime, her wishes will be respected and so will yours. But again – every situation is different. You just never know …
I’m not with her “knowing” she doesn’t love me. I said “if she loves me, she will wait”. so if she doesn’t love me, she’s not waiting, so we keep it moving. I still think men and women are equally disloyal. Sorry – can’t change me.
Kandi you have given me my “LOL” for the day with this statement:
“two bodies pounding until a pleasurable climax is reached”
That sounds like something out of a love song.
Derrick I can appreciate your viewpoint(s) – I have no intentions of changing them or you. Actually, I find them quite interesting. I can even agree with the fact that both men and women can be disloyal ..but USUALLY, and speaking from experience, it’s the male being disloyal to the female.
it’s too bad you hate men so much Kandi
or I might give you a test drive
Sean I hate that you feel I hate men …b/c I’m actually just the opposite. I love men …think they can be the most wonderful beings on this earth. But no …I am not one to deal with the bs – I’ve had enough in my lifetime. And thanks …but no thanks to the test drive. Not all men are worthy of this ride.
Kandi 1
Sean 0
LOL!!!
I believe that the bonds would be stronger if a couple waits. If they choose not to, they should educate themselves about sex and be on the same page.
Derrick
Your score is wrong. I have it as Sean 1 Kandi 1.
Great point Latoya!
Why exactly does waiting make the bond stronger?
This is my personal belief…..some couples,especially young ones or teenagers, receive a false sense of closeness and commitment when they engage in sexual activity when in actuality, they are filled with lust. I’m not saying that they should wait forever, but develop a relationship built on other things, besides sex.